courteous

adjective

cour·​te·​ous ˈkər-tē-əs How to pronounce courteous (audio)
 British also  ˈkȯ-
1
: marked by polished manners, gallantry, or ceremonial usage of a court
2
: marked by respect for and consideration of others
courteously adverb
courteousness noun
Choose the Right Synonym for courteous

civil, polite, courteous, gallant, chivalrous mean observant of the forms required by good breeding.

civil often suggests little more than the avoidance of overt rudeness.

owed the questioner a civil reply

polite commonly implies polish of speech and manners and sometimes suggests an absence of cordiality.

if you can't be pleasant, at least be polite

courteous implies more actively considerate or dignified politeness.

clerks who were unfailingly courteous to customers

gallant and chivalrous imply courteous attentiveness especially to women.

gallant suggests spirited and dashing behavior and ornate expressions of courtesy.

a gallant suitor of the old school

chivalrous suggests high-minded and self-sacrificing behavior.

a chivalrous display of duty

Examples of courteous in a Sentence

There was no doubt that his stubbornly held and trenchantly expressed views—his trenchancy always tempered, however, by his gently courteous manner—contributed significantly to his unpopularity … Simon Winchester, The Man Who Loved China, 2008
… she has seen generations of boys come and go, some well groomed and courteous, others rough and uppity … Julian Barnes, New Yorker, 5 Mar. 1990
He joined us in the Yellow Room with … his son, a thoughtful, courteous, nice doctor … Lady Bird Johnson 27 May 1964, in A White House Diary1970
The clerks were helpful and courteous. their customer service department always gives courteous responses, even to rude people
Recent Examples on the Web The book covers everything from formal introductions to declining invitations to courteous shopping. Wesley Morris Ron Butler Emma Kehlbeck Ted Blaisdell, New York Times, 5 Apr. 2024 The agents remain courteous, if thrown off their game. Hannah Allam, Washington Post, 31 Mar. 2024 There was no line, so I was processed quickly, efficiently, and with a courteous attitude. Lauren Mowery, Forbes, 28 Mar. 2024 Don’t forget your manners: Corkage is a courtesy, so be courteous. Mike Desimone and Jeff Jenssen, Robb Report, 10 Mar. 2024 Amos himself, a courteous Southern grandfather who relishes the chance to tell a story, has wings of blondish hair, round tortoiseshell glasses, and the executive fashion sense of a pre-Zuckerberg era: suit, loafers, pocket square. Maria Aspan, Fortune, 26 Mar. 2024 Johnson, ever courteous, approached Cheney before the meeting. David D. Kirkpatrick, The New Yorker, 15 Mar. 2024 Clear and courteous communication of your needs allows the crew members to customize their service to meet your expectations, ensuring a more enjoyable and personalized journey. Christopher Elliott, Forbes, 24 Feb. 2024 Maggiore, a courteous Midwesterner, could be heard apologizing to someone on the phone. Alexandra Schwartz, The New Yorker, 7 Sep. 2023

These examples are programmatically compiled from various online sources to illustrate current usage of the word 'courteous.' Any opinions expressed in the examples do not represent those of Merriam-Webster or its editors. Send us feedback about these examples.

Word History

Etymology

Middle English corteis, from Anglo-French curteis, from curt

First Known Use

13th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

Time Traveler
The first known use of courteous was in the 13th century

Dictionary Entries Near courteous

Cite this Entry

“Courteous.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/courteous. Accessed 25 Apr. 2024.

Kids Definition

courteous

adjective
cour·​te·​ous ˈkərt-ē-əs How to pronounce courteous (audio)
1
: marked by good manners suitable to a court
2
: marked by respect for and consideration of others
courteously adverb
courteousness noun

More from Merriam-Webster on courteous

Last Updated: - Updated example sentences
Love words? Need even more definitions?

Subscribe to America's largest dictionary and get thousands more definitions and advanced search—ad free!