passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

Examples of passive-aggressive in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web There was some ambiguity, or perhaps a passive-aggressive attitude, that initially clouded this development. Steven Simon, Foreign Affairs, 9 Apr. 2024 Job shopper asks for frequent references More:Husband thinks his wife is too close to her kids His folks often behave in a passive-aggressive manner toward me. Amy Dickinson, Detroit Free Press, 8 Apr. 2024 His folks often behave in a passive-aggressive manner toward me. Amy Dickinson, The Mercury News, 8 Apr. 2024 Her scenes with Buckley, in which the irresistible urge of Irish bonhomie butts up against the immovable object of passive-aggressive politeness and repression, are like watching musicians play off against each other’s weaving melodies and riffs. David Fear, Rolling Stone, 27 Mar. 2024 Though Crystal didn’t spell it all the way out, history shows that those grudges can range from the professional (Netflix versus the traditional studios) to the personal (actors making seemingly passive-aggressive comments about one another), stemming from the competitive nature of the awards. Fran Hoepfner, The Atlantic, 10 Mar. 2024 Not surprisingly, her most popular character is a passive-aggressive mean girl who rules the coop during high school, only to peak before adulthood. Ct Jones, Rolling Stone, 4 Mar. 2024 And the idea that LeBron James seems reluctant to publicly stick up for Coach Darvin Ham – and almost seems to be undermining him in a passive-aggressive sort of way – is to me a sign of trouble. Mirjam Swanson, Orange County Register, 31 Jan. 2024 Still, numerous metro Detroiters, imbued with a century-long culture of driving alone, and addicted to personal tastes in music or podcasts, just might play passive-aggressive on carpooling. Bill Laytner, Detroit Free Press, 29 Jan. 2024

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Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 19 Apr. 2024.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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